Divine Revelation Of God's Holiness And Judgement By Michael Sambo-Chapter # 6
The Bible reveals clearly that the God head is made up of three separate Persons, each distinct from the other. The first is called God the Father, the second is God the Son and the third is God the Holy Spirit. These three separate Persons make up the one God that we serve. Each one of these three Persons is God in all fullness.
No one is greater than the others. The three Persons are united in one and there can be no separation. Each one of these three is the Creator, the Lord, and the eternal God. Yet we do not have three Creators, Lords, or eternal Gods, but One. Let us examine the Scripture on important issues of eternal consequence;
Scriptural Insights
John 14:6 "Jesus said unto him, I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life: no man cometh unto the Father, But by Me." Acts 4:12 "Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven giving among men, whereby we must be saved." 1 John 5:11-13 "And this is the record, that God hath given to us eternal life, and this life is in His Son. 12 He that hath the Son hath life; and he that hath not the Son of God hath not life. 13 These things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life, and that ye may believe in the name of the Son of God."Other Series Chapter's Of Divine Revelation Of God's Holiness And Judgement By Michael Thomas Sambo: 1 Chapter, 2nd Chapter, 3rd Chapter, 4th Chapter, And 5th Chapter.
a. Jesus Christ is The Way The Truth and The Life.
The Scripture says: "And Jesus answered him, The first of all the commandments is, Hear O Israel; The Lord our God is One Lord."Mark 12:29
God the Son came to the world in human form. His name was called Jesus
Christ. He came to save mankind from sin and to restore man to eternal
life with God.
John 1:1-3, 10, 14
"In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word
was God. 2 The same was in the beginning with God. 3 All things were
made by Him; and without Him was not any thing made that was made. 10 He
was in the world, and the world was made by Him, and the world knew him
not. 14 And the Word was made flesh and dwelled among us (and we beheld
His glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father), full of
grace and truth." Matthew 1:21-2321 "And she shall bring forth a son,
and thou shalt call His name JESUS: for He shall save His people from
their sins. 22 Now all this was done, that it might be fulfilled which
was spoken of the Lord by the prophet, saying, 23 Behold a virgin shall
be with child, and shall bring forth a son, and they shall call His name
Emmanuel, which being interpreted is, God with us."
Your eyes now have opened clearly to the One
that suffered because of your sins, the One that was crucified on the
cross, that died, was buried and rose from death on the third day; the
One that gave the commission that the gospel be preached in all the
world to make people believe on Him for the forgiveness of their sins
and the salvation of their souls; the One that went back to heaven and
promised that He would be coming back to the world to take His true
believers to be with Him and to condemn rebellious sinners to
everlasting hell fire, prepared for Satan and his angels. Your eyes have
opened clearly to who JESUS is — our Lord and our God.
John 20: 27-29 27
"Then said He to Thomas, Reach hither thy finger, and behold My hands;
and reach hither thy hand, and thrust it into My side: and be not
faithless, but believing 28 And Thomas answered and said unto Him, My
Lord and my God. 29 Jesus said unto him, Thomas, because thou hast seen
Me, thou hast believed: blessed are they that have not seen, and yet
have believed."
- There Is No Salvation In Any Other Religion Or Belief.
All those who seek the salvation of their souls
through other religions or persons (saints, prophets, masters, etc.) can
never find true salvation and can never enter into heaven. John 10:8-11 "Then said Jesus unto them again, Verily, verily, I say unto you, I am the door of the sheep. 8 All that ever came before Me are thieves and robbers: but the sheep did not hear them. 9 I am the door: by Me if any man enter in, he shall be saved, and shall go in and out, and find pasture. 10
The thieve cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I
am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more
abundantly. 11 I am the good Shepherd: the good shepherd giveth his life for the sheep." To
reject Jesus is to reject the God of your life. To reject Jesus means
you have chosen to go to hell and be damned forever along with Satan and
his subjects.
- Special Adoration Or Worship Of Any Saint Is Idolatry
There are those who exalt, adore and worship Mary the earthly mother of Jesus.
They pray to her or through her. They also adore some dead saints and
pray to them or through them. The Bible has this to say of such people:
Romans 1:20-22, 25, 28 "For
the invisible things of Him from the creation of the world are clearly
seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal
power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse, 21
Because that, when they knew God, they glorified Him not as God,
neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their
foolish heart was darkened. 22 Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools, 25
Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the
creature more than the creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen. 28
And even as they do not want to retain God in their knowledge, God gave
them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not
convenient."
Those who give special adoration to Mary or
worship her, who pray to Mary or through her or pray to or through any
other person, dead or alive, should know that they are not Christians
but idol worshipers and have no place in the kingdom of God. Mary is a
creature of God as all of us are. She was chosen by God for the service
of giving birth to Jesus in the same way as God chose Abraham to be the
father of faith, Moses' mother to give birth to Israel's redeemer from
Egypt, David to be the king of Israel and established his kingdom over
Israel for ever. None of these receive special honour and worship. God's
choice of men for special function continues to this day. He chooses
men to carry out specific functions according to His divine purpose.
JESUS, the Creator of heaven and earth,
when on earth, was the Son of Mary in the ordinary sense as He was the
Son of David. The Lord is the Saviour of all men. Mary acknowledged that
the Lord is her Saviour. Luke 1:46,47 "And Mary said, My soul doth magnify the Lord, 47 And my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Saviour."
Mary is in heaven now not because she was the mother of Jesus, but
because she believed that Jesus was the Son of God and was saved from
her sins through faith in Christ as every other saint now in heaven.
Only God should receive special adoration and worship and not His
creatures.
Acts 10:25, 26 "And as Peter was coming in, Cornelius met him, and fell down at his feet, and worshiped him. 26 But Peter took him up, saying, Stand up; I myself also am a man."Acts 14:11-15
"And when the people saw what Paul had done, they lifted up their
voices, saying in the speech of Lycaonia, The gods are come down to us
in the likeness of men. 13 Then the
priest of Jupiter, which was before their city, brought oxen and
garlands unto the gates, and would have done sacrifice with the people. 14 Which when the apostles, Barnabas and Paul, heard of, they rent their clothes, and ran in among the people, crying out, 15
And saying, Sirs, why do ye these things? We also are men of like
passions with you, and preach unto you that ye should turn from these
vanities unto the living God, which made heaven, and earth, and the sea,
and all things that are therein."
Revelation 22:8, 9
"And I John saw these things, and heard them. And when I had heard and
seen, I fell down to worship before the feet of the angel which shewed
me these things. 9 Then said he unto
me, See thou do it not: for I am thy fellow servant, and of thy brethren
the prophets, and of them which keep the saying of this book: worship
God."
If Mary should come alive on earth today, she
would reprove those who give her special adoration and worship. But,
alas, Satan has filled a whole Christian denomination with satanic signs
and wonders to convince them that Mary hears and answers prayers and
accepts their worship, to their eternal regret in the flames of hell.
Let no man deceive and destroy you with teachings that are based on
human traditions and not on the holy Scripture. Save your eternal soul
by repenting of your sins and accepting Jesus only as your Lord and Saviour. Withdraw yourself from Mary's and saint's adoration or worship.
Leviticus 26:1
"Ye shall make you no idols nor graven image, neither rear you up a
standing image, neither shall ye set up any image of stone in your land,
to bow down unto it: for I am the LORD your God." Isaiah 42:8 "I am the LORD: that is My name: and My glory will I not give to another, neither My praise to graven images." 1 John 5:21 "Little children, keep yourselves from idols. Amen."
b. The Salvation of Your Soul From Sin and Hell
The way of salvation from sin and hell fire is
clearly revealed in Scripture. If you follow the path of salvation shown
in the Scripture, you will surely be saved. God has never predestined
you to eternal damnation. He is merciful to you. Do the following for
your salvation from sin and hell fire:
Firstly,
accept the fact that you have sinned against God through disobeying His
commandments. You have done many evil things against God, against
yourself and your fellow men. By virtue of your sins and wicked deeds,
which may be many or few, you are justly condemned by God and are in the
number of those doomed for everlasting destruction in hell fire.
Galatians 5:19-21
"Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery,
fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, 20 Idolatry, witchcraft,
hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, 21
Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I
tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which
do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God." Psalm 51:3, 4 "For I acknowledge my transgressions: and my sin is ever before me. 4
Against thee, thee only, have I sinned, and done this evil in thy
sight: that thou mightest be justified when thou speakest, and be clear
when thou judgest."
Secondly :God is a merciful God
who freely forgives the sins of those that repent and seek His
forgiveness. Confess your sins to Him, repent of them and plead with Him
to forgive you.
Isaiah 55:7 "Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and He will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for He will abundantly pardon." Psalm 51:1, 2 "Have mercy upon me, O God, according to thy loving-kindness: according unto the multitudes of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions
2 Wash me thoroughly from mine iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin."
Thirdly: Jesus
Christ is the Saviour from sin. You cannot stop sinning by your power
without Him. Welcome Him into your life to give you the power to
overcome sin. When Jesus comes into your life He will save you from sin
and give you the power of righteousness. Jesus is the universal Saviour
from sin. Apart from Him there is no other one and no other way.
Acts 16:30, 31
"And brought them out, and said, Sirs, what must I do to be saved? 31
And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be
saved, and thy house."John 1:12 "But as many as received Him, to them gave He power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on His name." 2 Corinthians 5:17 "Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new."
Fourthly,
when you give your life to Jesus Christ your sins are forgiven and you
have a new life from God. Your name enters into the book of life in
heaven. Surely, you will not want to start committing new sins and to
get your name removed from the book of life. You must determine to
continue in Christ by living a righteous life every day to the end of
your life on earth. Make sure you have a good Bible. Study your Bible
regularly and pray always to God for His grace to live the Christian
life. Obey God's word in every area of your life. The Holy Spirit will
guide you into all truth, obey Him. Do not be afraid of man and be not
ashamed of following Jesus. Dissociate from evil friends, relationships
and associations.
1 John 3:9, 10
"Whosoever is born of God doth no commit sin; for His seed remaineth in
him: and he cannot sin, because he is born of God, 10 In this the
children of God are manifest, and the children of the devil: whosoever
doeth not righteousness is not of God, neither he that loveth not his
brother." Colossians 2:6-8 "As ye have
therefore received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk ye in Him. 7 Rooted
and built up in Him, and stablished in the faith, as ye have been
taught, abounding therein with thanksgiving. 8 Beware lest any man spoil
you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men,
after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ."
- Water Baptism
Water baptism is not for ignorant and
unconverted children, nor for unrepentant adult. Those who were baptized
when they were still sinners need to be baptized when they truly repent
and give their lives to Jesus Christ. The apostles practiced water
baptism according to the instruction given to them by the Lord Jesus
Christ. Acts 2:38 "Then
Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the
name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the
gift of the Holy Ghost." Baptism in the name of Jesus Christ as
seen in the above passage and in other passages in Acts of the Apostles
means baptism as instructed or authorized by Jesus Christ.
- Baptism With the Holy Ghost
Baptism with the Holy Ghost or the gift of the
Holy Ghost is the coming of the Holy Spirit upon a believer in baptismal
measure for the purpose of filling him with power for effective
Christian service. All believers are promised the baptism with the Holy
Spirit by God. This is received by prayer and faith on God's promises. Acts 1:8
"But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon
you: and ye shall be witnesses unto Me both in Jerusalem, and in all
Judaea, and in Samaria, and unto the uttermost part of the earth." Luke 11:13
"If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your
children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit
to them that ask Him."
The scriptural evidence of baptism with the Holy Spirit is speaking in tongues as the Spirit inspires. Acts 2:4 "And they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance." Acts 10:44-46
"While Peter yet spake these words, the Holy Ghost fell on all them
which heard the word. 45 And they of the circumcision which believed
were astonished, as many as came with Peter, because that on the Gentles
also was poured out the gift of the Holy Ghost, 46 For they heard them
speak with tongues, and magnify God."
Speaking in tongues as evidence of baptism with
the Holy Spirit is given to every believer who is baptized with the Holy
Spirit for the purpose of prayer and personal edification. This is,
however, different from speaking in tongues as a ministry gift which God
does not give to every believer, as the gifts of prophecy, healing,
working of miracles, etc.
1 Corinthians 12:28-31
"And God hath set some in the church, first apostles, secondarily
prophets, thirdly teachers, after that miracles, then gifts of healings,
helps, governments, diversities of tongues. 29 Are all apostles? are
all prophets? are all teachers? are all workers of miracles? 30 Have all
the gifts of healing? do all speak with tongues? do all interpret? 31
But covet earnestly the best gifts: and yet shew I unto you a more
excellent way."
- Restitution
Now that you are in Christ, the Lord expects you
to serve Him with a conscience void of offence toward God and toward
man. Hence you will need to take some corrective actions over your past
life, according to the teaching of the Scripture. This may involve
settling your differences with those offended by you, paying back your
just debts, returning stolen property, apologizing for lies told, false
claims, fraudulent acts; dissolving your unscriptural marriage union,
given up false certificates. This is called restitution.
The Holy Spirit will reveal to you those things that require your corrective actions, according to the word of God. God will be with you as you carry out your restitution and His grace will be sufficient for you. Restitution as an act of righteousness will fill you with joy and peace and will glorify the name of the Lord among men.
Ecclesiastes 3:15 That which hath been is now; and that which is to be hath already been; and God requireth that which is past." 1 Samuel 12:3-5 "Behold,
here I am: witness against me before the LORD, and before His anointed:
whose ox have I taken? or whose ass have I taken? or whom have I
defrauded? whom have I oppressed? or of whose hand have I received any
bribe to blind mine eyes therewith? and I will restore it you, 4 And
they said, Thou hast not defrauded us, nor oppressed us, neither hast
thou taken ought of any man's hand. 5 And he said unto them, The LORD is
witness against you, and His anointed is witness this day, that ye have
not found ought in my hand. And they answered, He is witness."
Ezekiel 33:14-16
"Again, when I say unto the wicked, Thou shalt surely die; if he turn
from his sin, and do that which is lawful and right: 15 If the wicked
restore the pledge, give again that he hath robbed, walk in the statutes
of life, without committing iniquity; he shall surely live, he shall
not die. 16 None of his sins that
he hath committed shall be mentioned unto him: he hath done that which
is lawful and right; he shall surely live."
Luke 19:5-10 "And
when Jesus came to the place, He looked up, and saw him, and said unto
him, Zacchaeus, make haste, and come down; for today I must abide at thy
house. 6 And he made haste and came down and received Him joyfully. 7 And when they saw it they all murmured, saying, That He was gone to be guest with a man that is a sinner.8
And Zacchaeus stood, and said unto the Lord; Behold, Lord, the half of
my goods I give to the poor; and if I have taken any thing from any man
by false accusation, I restore him fourfold. 9 And Jesus said unto him, This day is salvation come to this house, for as much as he also is a son of Abraham. 10 For the Son of man is come to seek and to save that which was lost."
Acts 23:1
"And Paul, earnestly beholding the council, said, Men and brethren, I
have lived in all good conscience before God until this day." Acts 24:16 "And herein do I exercise myself, to have always a conscience void of offence toward God, and toward men."
Some restitution require counseling from true
and wise men of God, especially those involving others. Take sufficient
counsel before carrying out such restitution. Proverbs 11:14 "Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety."
c. The Church to Worship God With
The Bible is very clear on this area. Follow the
instructions of the word of God so that you can preserve your salvation
to the end of your life on earth. The Bible warns us against joining
the wrong church.
Proverbs 13:20 "He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed." Matthew 15:7-9, 14
"Ye hypocrites, well did Esaias prophesy of you, saying, 8. This people
draweth nigh unto Me with their mouth, and honoureth Me with their
lips; but their heart is far from Me. 9 But in vain they do
worship Me, teaching for doctrines the commandments of men. 14 Let them
alone: they be blind leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the
blind, both shall fall into the ditch."
Matthew 23:13, 15 "But woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye shut up the kingdom of heaven against men: for ye neither go in yourselves, neither suffer ye them that are entering to go in, 15 Woe unto you scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye compass sea and land to make one proselyte (convert), and when he is made, ye make him twofold more the child of hell than yourselves."
Matthew 23:13, 15 "But woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye shut up the kingdom of heaven against men: for ye neither go in yourselves, neither suffer ye them that are entering to go in, 15 Woe unto you scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye compass sea and land to make one proselyte (convert), and when he is made, ye make him twofold more the child of hell than yourselves."
From the above and many other scriptures we
understand that some churches are ignorant and foolish to the ways of
God. Their worship of God is only lip service. Some of these churches
are completely demonic in origin and in activities. They are deeply
buried in their sins. Their leaders are blind guides. If you are in such
a church you will be made twice a child of hell than the leaders
themselves. Not all churches teach the truth that leads people to
heaven: beware and be warned! Do not join such a church and if you are
already a member, you must withdraw yourself.
Do not allow family, ethnic, tribal, religious or denominational politics to hinder you from obeying the clear instructions of the Scripture. If you are the leader of such assembly, you need to repent of your sins and give your life to Jesus Christ and allow your members to worship God in the true way with a true church of Christ.
Humble yourself and obey the truth that will save your soul. Isaiah 48:17-20 "Thus
saith the LORD, thy Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel; I am the LORD thy
God which teacheth thee to profit, which leadeth thee by the way that
thou shouldest go. 18 O that thou hadst hearkened to My commandments!
then had thy peace been as a river, and thy righteousness as the waves
of the sea: 19 Thy seed also hath been as the sand, and the offspring of
thy bowels as the gravel thereof; his name should not have been cut off
nor destroyed from before Me. 20 Go ye forth of Babylon, flee ye from
the Chaldeans, with a voice of singing declare ye, tell this, utter it
even to the end of the earth; say ye, The LORD hath redeemed His servant
Jacob." Do not allow family, ethnic, tribal, religious or denominational politics to hinder you from obeying the clear instructions of the Scripture. If you are the leader of such assembly, you need to repent of your sins and give your life to Jesus Christ and allow your members to worship God in the true way with a true church of Christ.
- Characteristics Of A Good Church Of Christ
The Bible reveals the characteristics of the
fellowship of true believers. Look for a true church of Christ and
worship God with them. Again, do not allow the politics of religion or
denomination to affect your obeying Bible instructions which are for
your eternal life.
2 Timothy 2:2, 22
"And the things that thou hast heard of me among many witnesses, the
same commit thou to faithful men, which shall be able to teach others
also. Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith,
charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart."
1 John 1:3, 5, 7
"That which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye also
may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship is with the
Father, and with His Son Jesus Christ. 5 This then is the message which
we have heard of Him, and declare unto you, that God is light, and in
Him is no darkness at all. 7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in
the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus
Christ His Son cleanseth us from all sin."
Matthew 28:18-20"And
Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto Me in
heaven and in earth. 19 Go ye therefore, and teach all nations,
baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the
Holy Ghost: 20 Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have
commanded you: and, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the
world. Amen."
As seen in the above scriptures and many others,
a true church of Christ is built upon the word of God. The leaders
faithfully preach and teach the word of God. They do not change Christ's
doctrines along with the changing world. The members serve God in
righteousness and holiness. The presence of God is clearly manifest
among them in the demonstration of power and gifts of the Spirit.
Acts 4:23, 29-33
"And being let go, they went to their own company, and reported all
that the chief priests and elders had said unto them. 29 And now, Lord,
behold their threatenings: and grant unto thy servants, that with all
boldness they may speak thy word, 30 By stretching forth thine hand to
heal; and that signs and wonders may be done by the name of thy holy
Child Jesus. 31 And when they had prayed, the place was shaken where
they were assembled together; and they were all filled with the Holy
Ghost, and they spake the word of God with boldness. 32 And the
multitude of them that believed were of one heart and of one soul:
neither said any of them that ought of the things which he possessed was
his own; but they had all things common. 33 And with great power gave
the apostles witness of the resurrection of the Lord Jesus: and great
grace was upon them all.
Locate a true church of Christ and
worship God together with the brethren. This will help to preserve your
Christian faith and prepare you for eternal life. If you are a minister
over a congregation, make sure you practice and teach all the word of
God so that you can save yourself and them that hear you.
Matthew 7:4, 5 "Or
how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine
eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? 5 Thou hypocrite, first
cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shall thou see clearly
to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye." Ezra 7:10 "For Ezra had prepared his heart to seek the law of the LORD, and to do it, and to teach in Israel statutes and judgments. 1 Timothy 4:15, 16
"Meditate upon these things; give thyself wholly to them; that thy
profiting may appear to all. 16 Take heed unto thyself, and unto the
doctrine; continue in them: for in doing this thou shalt both save
thyself, and them that hear thee."
It is unfortunate that many churches today have slipped into fleshly gratification of music and dancing. During the ministry of the word and prayer the members are dull and sleepy. They become fully awake and active when music and dancing resumes. The preachers are being tempted to introduce music and dancing regularly and to prolong this period during worship service to keep the worshippers awake. This is seen as dance worship and they feel that God is greatly glorified by it. Unknown to them, this is Satan's subtil device to steal away the word of God and prayer from the church and deny sinners and believers concentration on the word of God and prayer by which they can be saved, sanctified and empowered. Christian music and worship must be pure and holy and be devoid of worldliness.
James 1:21
"Wherefore lay apart all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness, and
receive with meekness the engrafted word, which is able to save your
souls." 2 Timothy 4:2 "Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all long suffering and doctrine."
Music and dancing, not the word of God and
prayer, is now the instrument many churches are using to preserve their
youths. This is building the youths upon a sandy foundation. Neither
such churches nor their youths have a future. Matthew 7:27
"And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and
beat upon that house; and it fell: and great was the fall of it."
God bless the holy church that builds her youths
upon the word of God and prayer. This is building the youths on a sound
foundation. Such churches and their youths have a glorious future. Luke 6:48
"He is like a man which built an house, and digged deep, and laid the
foundation on a rock: and when the flood arose, the stream beat
vehemently upon that house, and could not shake it: for it was founded
upon a rock."
d. The Outward Appearance of a Holy Christian
1 Peter 1:14-16 "As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to your former lusts in your ignorance: 15 But as He which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation; 16 Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy."
God is holy. He demands holiness from
those that desire fellowship with Him. God wants His children to be
inwardly as well as outwardly holy. This means not only is our inward
attitude, but also our outward appearance is important to God.
Exodus 20:26 "Neither shall thou go up by steps into My altar, that thy nakedness be not discovered." God
does not want our sensitive body parts to be exposed to the view of
public eye. Exposing sensitive body parts to the public causes
defilement among men and dishonours God. The Bible reveals that some
adornment, designs and dressing styles do not belong to God's children
but to the ungodly and sinners.
Proverbs 7:10-12
"And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and
subtil of heart. 11 (She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her
house: 12 Now is she without, now in the streets, and lieth in wait at
every corner.)"2 Kings 9:30 "And when
Jehu was come to Jezreel, Jezebel heard of it; and she painted her face,
and tied her head, and looked out at a window."
Believers are bought with the precious blood of
our Lord Jesus Christ. Our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit. To
expose the sensitive parts of our body to the public through rough and
improper dressing is to defile the body, the temple of the Holy Spirit.
To put on the attire that makes us look like harlots or rascals is to
grieve the Holy Spirit and incur His wrath.
1 Corinthians 3:16, 17
"Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God
dwelleth in you? 17 If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God
destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are." When
God instructed Jacob to go up to Bethel, the place he first met with
God, he told his household to cleanse themselves from evil and to change
their dressing.
Genesis 35:1-4 "And God said unto Jacob, Arise, go up to Bethel, and dwell there: and make there an altar unto God, that appeared unto thee when thou fleddest from the face of Esau thy brother. 2 Then Jacob said unto his household, and to all that were with him, Put away the strange gods that are among you, and be clean and change your garments: 3 And let us arise, and go up to Bethel; and I will make there an altar unto God, who answered me in the day of my distress, and was with me in the way which I went. 4 And they gave unto Jacob all the strange gods which were in their hand, and all their earrings which were in their ears; and Jacob hid them under the oak which was by Shechem."
Encounter with the holy God must produce not
only inward visible change, but also outward visible change. Encounter
with the holy God by anyone, male or female, should lead to removal and
destruction of ungodly clothes and change of dressing style to conform
to His nature of holiness. Right from the Old Testament time God warned
His people against make-ups and ungodly attire.
Deuteronomy 22:5
"The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth to a man, neither shall
a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are an abomination
unto the LORD thy God."
In our day there are women that wear trousers
and put on shirts, looking like men in appearance. Some argue that the
trousers are feminine in design. There is no excuse in that. True
children of God know that such are attires of harlots. No child of God
who knows the holiness of God and claims to be walking on the narrow way
to heaven will put on such attires. All that do so are abomination to
God and will never enter into heaven. It is unfortunate that some
preachers permit or encourage their members to put on these ungodly
clothing. Some are silent about the ungodly outward appearance of their
church members. They shall go with their members to hell. There is no
respect of persons with God.
Isaiah 56:10, 11
"His watchmen are blind: they are all ignorant, they are all dumb dogs,
they cannot bark; sleeping, lying down, loving to slumber. 11 Yea, they
are greedy dogs which can never have enough, and they are shepherds
that cannot understand: they all look to their own way, every one for
his gain, from his quarter."
- The Dressing and Comportment of Holy Women
The Scripture says the following concerning the outward appearance of holy women:
1 Timothy 2: 9, 10
"In like manner also that women adorn themselves in modest apparel,
with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or
pearls, or costly array; 10 But (which becometh women professing
godliness) with good works."
1 Peter 3:2-5
"While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. 3 Whose
adorning, let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and
of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; 4 But let it be the
hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the
ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of
great price. 5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women
also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto
their own husbands."
The word "gold" in the passages above means jewelry, which is a
collective word for earrings, rings, nose rings, chains, necklace,
bracelets: items of ornamentation or bodily decoration. Holy women of
old time did not adorn themselves with items of beauty and worldliness
which were prevalent among the backsliders and ungodly society of their
day. They clothed themselves with meekness, quiet spirit, and holiness,
which is in the sight of God of great price. They were modest in outward
appearance.Worldliness to be Avoided in Christian Dressing
The Bible reveals the worldliness in adornment
that characterized the Old Testament time, which has continued to today.
The ungodly daughters of Zion borrowed these worldly adornments from
the heathen nations around them. God had warned Israel not to learn the
ways of the heathen.
Isaiah 3:16-20 "Moreover
the LORD saith, Because the daughters of Zion are haughty, and walk
with stretched forth necks and wanton eyes, walking and mincing as they
go, and making a tinkling with their feet: 17 Therefore the Lord will
smite with a scab the crown of the head of the daughters of Zion, and
the LORD will discover their secret parts,18
In that day the Lord will take away the bravery of their tinkling
ornaments about their feet, and their cauls, and their round tires like
the moon, 19 The chains and the bracelets and the mufflers, 20 The bonnets, and the ornaments of the legs, and the headbands, and the tablets, and the earrings, 21 The rings, and nose jewels, 22 The changeable suits of apparel, and the mantles, and the wimples, and the crisping pins. 23 The glasses, and the fine linen, and the hoods, and the vails. 24
And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be
stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of well set hair
baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning
instead of beauty."
The Holy Spirit listed these items to make the
men and women of God know and avoid them. To adorn yourself with these
things makes you unholy before God. Today there are children of God,
even men and women of God, who use earrings, nose jewels, chains,
necklace, rings. These things hinder them from being truly holy in the
sight of God. Humble yourself and remove them and do not risk your
eternal soul by vain arguments. There is no correction of your ways
after death.
Psalm 50:21, 22
"These things hast thou done, and I kept silence; thou thoughtest that I
was altogether such an one as thyself: but I will reprove thee, and set
them in order before thine eyes, 22 Now consider this, ye that forget
God, lest I tear you in pieces, and there be none to deliver."
Cleanse yourself and keep yourself from all
forms of worldliness and worldly adornment, such as, palming or jerry
curling of the hair, use of hair attachment, mini-skirts, split-skirts,
armpit-exposing blouses; keeping long nails, painting of face, lips,
nails; wearing of wigs; and whatever Satan introduces into the world to
defile the holiness of God's children. 1 Corinthians 7:1
"Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse
ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting
holiness in the fear of God."
We are living in the New Testament era and God
has given to us the full revelation of His word and will. We should not
consider the case of any Old Testament character as an excuse to obeying
the full word of God. Never take shelter under the teaching or outward
appearance of any man or woman of God which does not conform to the
standard of God's word. They shall not stand for you, but for themselves
before God in that day. As the men are not to put on women clothing so
also they are not to do their hair like women. If a man adopts the
hairdo of women he is an abomination unto the Lord. The believer's
haircut must not be according to the fashion of the world. The woman
also must not have haircut like man. The Bible says it is a shame to the
woman to be shorn.
- Headcovering
1 Corinthians 11:3-16
"But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and
the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. 4 Every
man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his
head. 5 But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head
uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were
shaven. 6 For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but
if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered. 7
For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, for as much as he is the
image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man. 10 For
this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the
angels. 13 Judge in yourselves: is it comely that the woman pray unto
God uncovered? 14 Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man
have long hair, it is a shame unto him? 15 But if a woman have long
hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering."
Christ is the Head of the man and man is the
image and glory of God. The man is the head of the woman and the woman
is his glory. During worship: prayer, prophesying or preaching, the man
should not cover his head. During this formal period Christ is the One
in headship and God's glory is to be seen. If a man covers his head at
this period it shows he has covered the headship of Christ and the glory
of God. During this formal period, man is not in focus, he is not in
headship and the glory is not his but God's, hence his headship and
glory are to be covered.
This is visibly done by the veil on the woman's head. Angels who minister to the saints during worship expect submission to this rule by Christ's followers. Outside this formal period, the wearing of any kind of veil by man is not an offence as long as it befits a believer and does not transgress the law of decency.
This is visibly done by the veil on the woman's head. Angels who minister to the saints during worship expect submission to this rule by Christ's followers. Outside this formal period, the wearing of any kind of veil by man is not an offence as long as it befits a believer and does not transgress the law of decency.
Similarly, outside this formal period, the woman is not under obligation to be veiled. This is because her long hair "Is a glory to her for her hair is giving her for a covering."
Covering her head with a veil is only required during worship, after
which she is at liberty to leave her head uncovered by a veil. Her hair
could be seen on her to her glory in her normal living. Her hairdo must
be decent and befitting to a believer. She must avoid hairdo that
changes her hair from the natural to unnatural. That will be lying against the truth and grieving the Holy Spirit.
She must not plate gold or items of beauty and fashion into her hair.
She should avoid the use of jewellery and the art of dressing for show. 1 Peter 3:5 "For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves."
e. God's Standard in Marriage
God who instituted the marriage union has a
standard for it. The Scripture clearly shows God's standard that is to
be followed and observed by His children. God is interested in the
marriage of His children. He gives good husbands and wives to those that
come to Him. Seek the face of God earnestly to receive His choice of a
marriage partner.
Proverbs 19:14 "House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the Lord." Matthew 7:11
"If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your
children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good
things to them that ask Him."
The Scripture warns believers against marrying
unbelievers. An unbeliever is someone who has not been saved from sin
through the blood of Jesus Christ. He is a sinner. He or she may be
active in the church and profess to be a Christian, but there is clearly
no evidence of such profession. Such should not be married by a child
of God.
Titus 1:16 "They
profess that they know God; but in works they deny Him, being
abominable, and disobedient, and unto every good work reprobate."
2 Corinthians 6:14-18
"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what
fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteous-ness? and what communion
hath light with darkness? 15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial?
Or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
16 And what
agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of
the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in
them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. 17 Wherefore
come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch
not the unclean thing; and I will receive you, 18 And will be a Father
unto you, and ye shall be My sons and daughters, saith the Lord
Almighty."
1 Corinthians 7:39 "The
wife is bound by the law as long as the husband liveth; but if her
husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only
in the Lord."
Deuteronomy 7:3, 4
"Neither shall thou make marriages with them; thy daughter thou shalt
not give unto his son, nor his daughter shalt thou take unto thy son. 4
For they will turn away thy son from following Me, that they may serve
other gods: so will the anger of the LORD be kindle against you, and
destroy thee suddenly."
Do not esteem such advantages as beauty, same
tribe, same church, educational attainment, social status, wealth,
family background, etc. above the requirement of Scripture. Do not risk
your eternal soul. It is better not to marry at all than to marry an
unbeliever.
Those who are already married should know that God
is the marriage builder. He can repair every marriage union and solve
every problem between husband and wife, however complex. Bring your
marriage before the Lord; He will put it in order and give you peace.
Psalm 68:5, 6 "A Father of the fatherless, and a Judge of the widows, is God in His holy habitation.
6 God setteth the
solitary in families: He bringeth out those which are bound with chains:
but the rebellious dwell in a dry land."
1 Peter 5:7 "Casting all your care upon Him; for He careth for you."
God has giving us in the Scripture His standard in marriage. Those who desire to serve Him must keep this standard.
Mark 10:6-9 "But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
7 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;
8 And they twain shall be one flesh; so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.
9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder."
The scriptural marriage is a union between one
man and one woman in holy wedlock. Those who marry more than one wife
are sinners before God. The man who does so is committing adultery
against his wife and shall be judged by God. If he desires to repent of
his sins and follow the Lord Jesus Christ, then he must put away those
women he is committing adultery with, whatever the number of years they
have stayed together and whatever the number of children they have
gotten in the marriage. Separation is required between him and the
illegal women and not the children. He should remain with his first
wife. The scriptural law of marriage binds a man to his wife and a woman
to her husband as long as the other marriage partner is alive.
Romans 7:2, 3
2 "For the woman
which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he
liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her
husband.
3 So then if,
while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be
called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that
law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another
man."
1 Corinthians 7:39
"The wife is bound
by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead,
she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
The law of marriage binds a husband to his wife
and the wife to her husband as long as both of them are still alive.
Divorce and remarriage to another person is not allowed. Whoever
divorces and remarries when the marriage partner is still alive has no
part in the kingdom of God. He or she is committing adultery.
Mark 10:10-12
10 "And in the house His disciples asked Him again of the same matter.
11 And He saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.
12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery."
If you are married to another woman or as a
woman you are married to another man, apart from your first scriptural
binding marriage partner, you are in a wrong relationship and must
dissolve it, if you want to please God. You should go back to your first
lawful marriage partner or stay unmarried.
1 Corinthians 7:10, 11
10 "And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
11 But and if she
depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and
let not the husband put away his wife."
- "Saving For the Cause of Fornication," Explained
There are those who say that adultery committed
by one of the partners in a marriage union can result to scriptural
divorce and remarriage. This understanding comes from the
misinterpretation of the following scriptures:
Matthew 5:32
"But I say unto
you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of
fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry
her that is divorced committeth adultery."
Matthew 19:9
"And I say unto
you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication,
and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her
which is put away doth commit adultery."
The issue here that can cause divorce is
fornication and not adultery. Unfortunately some Bible translations
replace the word fornication with marital unchastity or marital
unfaithfulness. Many stumble by these renderings. Fornication is a sin
which is committed by someone who has not yet entered into the marriage
union. The following scripture will give understanding of the above
scriptures:
Matthew 1:18-20
18 "Now the birth
of Jesus Christ was on this wise: when as His mother Mary was espoused
to Joseph, before they came together, she was found with child of the
Holy Ghost.
19 Then Joseph her husband, being a just man, not willing to make her a publick example, was minded to put her away privily.
20 But while he
thought on these things, behold, the angel of the Lord appeared unto him
in a dream, saying, Joseph, thou son of David, fear not to take unto
thee Mary thy wife: for that which is conceived in her is of the Holy
Ghost."
In this scripture Mary was called the wife of
Joseph, when they were still in betrothal relationship and the marriage
union had not yet been contracted. When Joseph thought that Mary had
become pregnant through fornication he made up his mind to put her away
and would have done so, except that God stopped him and gave him a clear
explanation concerning Mary's pregnancy.
Among the Jews the betrothal stage of marriage was binding on the partners and they were not to separate from each other, but must enter into the marriage union in the appropriate time. Jesus in Matthew 5:32 and 19:9 above showed that fornication by either of the partners in betrothal relationship can break the betrothal bond and the other party could be free to marry another. This is in consonant with the uniform revelation of the New Testament on this subject. No Scripture stands alone.
Among the Jews the betrothal stage of marriage was binding on the partners and they were not to separate from each other, but must enter into the marriage union in the appropriate time. Jesus in Matthew 5:32 and 19:9 above showed that fornication by either of the partners in betrothal relationship can break the betrothal bond and the other party could be free to marry another. This is in consonant with the uniform revelation of the New Testament on this subject. No Scripture stands alone.
Among Christ's followers, we must note that when
two believers are in bond to marry each other and one of them
backslides from the faith, such marriage proposal must discontinue. The
other partner has become an unbeliever and can no more be married, to
keep to the standard of the Scripture. If the backslider repents and
gets restored and the believer still feels persuaded to continue with
the marriage proposal, it is acceptable. He or she is not marrying a
sinner but a believer. Let us consider that scripture again.
Matthew 19:9
"And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be
for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso
married her which is put away doth commit adultery."
- Seven Facts to Prove That Adultery Cannot Cause Divorce
Note that the clause "except it be for fornication"
is not found in the gospel accounts of Mark and Luke and in the
epistles. The following facts show clearly that this scripture does not
refer to adultery or marital unfaithfulness committed by a husband or a
wife in a marriage union already contracted.
No. 1: Jesus
said a husband and wife in a proper marital relationship are one flesh
and are no more two. This bond is made by God and man has no power to
cancel it.
Matthew 19:4-8 "And He answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that He which made them at the beginning made them male and female, 5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? 6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 7 They say unto Him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? 8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so."
No minister, church or custom has authority to
dissolve the marriage bond between husband and wife in a scriptural
marriage union. Divorce pronouncement in a law court by a Judge based on
the laws of the country does not dissolve a scriptural marriage union,
because the laws of God are higher than the laws of any country.
No. 2: The
grace of God in Christ Jesus gives the believer the power to forgive
his fellow men of all sins, including adultery, even as he or she has
been forgiven by God:
Matthew 18:32, 33
"Then his lord, after that he hath called him, said unto him, O thou
wicked servant, I forgave thee all that debt, because thou desiredst me:
33 Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellow servant,
even as I had pity on thee? Colossians 3:13
"Forbearing one another and forgiving one another, if any man have a
quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye."
The forgiveness a backslider receives from God
restores him to the love and fellowship of God and restores to him his
rights and privileges in Christ. Anyone who practices the word of God
will forgive the wife or husband of all sins including adultery and
restore him or her to marital love, fellowship, rights and privileges.
No. 3: Jesus showed that adultery is as evil as every other sin in the sight of God, damnable and forgivable. John 8:4, 5, 7, 10, 11
"They say unto Him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the
very act. 5 Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be
stoned: but what sayest Thou? 7 So when they continued asking Him, He
lifted up Himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you,
let him first cast a stone at her. 10 When Jesus hath lifted up
Himself, and saw none but the woman, He said unto her, Woman, where are
those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee? 11 She said, No man,
Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no
more."
Here we see that if adultery has the power to
destroy life or lawfully terminate marriage, then every other sin can do
the same, because all sins are equally damnable before God. Jesus
forgave this woman of her adultery and cleansed her from her sin. Can
any one condemn someone Christ has justified? Can any man or woman call
unclean what God has cleansed? Can the husband of this woman reject her
in marriage and be doing God a service?
No.4: Believers
are instructed to remain bound in marriage to their unbelieving
partners as long as the unbelieving partners desire to remain married to
them.
1 Corinthians 7:12, 13
12 "But to the
rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth
not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.
13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him."
1 Peter 3:1, 2
1 "Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own
husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear."
The unbelieving marriage partner which the
believer is instructed to condone with commits every kind of sin,
including adultery certainly. By this the Holy Spirit is showing that no
sin is strong enough to break the marriage bond.
No. 5:
God loves children and seeks to protect and save them; hence He hates
divorce. Divorce does a lot of harm to the children born into the
family.
1 Corinthians 7:14
"For the
unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife
is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now
are they holy."
Malachi 2:14-16
14 "Yet ye say,
Wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife
of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy
companion, and the wife of thy covenant.
15 And did not He
make one? Yet hath He the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That
He might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let
none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.
16 For the LORD,
the God of Israel, saith that He hateth putting away: for one covereth
violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed
to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously."
One may reason thus: "Will not God also seek to
protect the children born to the unlawful marriage?" The God of mercy is
also the God of truth. He will not lay aside His eternal truth to show
any one mercy.
No. 6: Adultery
in marriage does not separate the marriages of sinners around us in the
world in which we live. Many of our unbelieving neighbours forgive and
condone with the adulteries of their marriage partners. Should sinners
become more reasonable, forgiving, patient, enduring and loving that the
saints? It is not too much for any believer to forgive the adultery
committed by his or her marriage partner, because even sinners do the
same! The Lord of the church has given us a righteousness not lower, but
higher than that of sinners.
Matthew 5:46, 47
46 "For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans same?
47 And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so."
Matthew 5:20
"For I say unto
you, That except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of
the scribes and Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of
heaven."
No. 7:
The Lord has confirmed this truth to many of His servants that saw Him
face to face in a divine encounter. Divorce and remarriage to another
partner when the first lawful partner is alive is damnable in hell fire.
Hebrews 2:1-3 "Therefore
we ought to give the more earnest heed to the things which we have
heard, lest at any time we should let them slip. 2 For if the word
spoken by angels was steadfast, and every transgression and disobedience
received a just recompence of reward; 3 How shall we escape, if we
neglect so great salvation; which at the first began to be spoken by the
Lord, and was confirmed unto us by them that heard Him?"
- The Believer Must Remain Unmarried if the Unbelieving Partner Departs
The Bible further instructs that if the
unbelieving marriage partner decides to depart from the marriage, such
one can go. The believer is guiltless of the separation. He or she
should remain peaceful in Christ. 1 Corinthians 7:15
"But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or sister is
not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace."
Note that this scripture does not negate or
nullify the instruction and command of the other scriptures. The two are
still one flesh and the law of marriage states that neither of them
should remarry as long as the marriage partner is still alive. The
unbelieving partner or backslider who has departed can receive the
conviction and salvation of the Lord at any time and reunite with the
marriage spouse.
Luke 15:17, 18
"And when he came to himself, he said, How many hired servants of my
father's have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger! 18 I will arise and go to my father, and will say unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and before thee."Philemon 15, 16 For perhaps he therefore departed for a season, that thou shouldest receive him for ever.16
Not now as a servant, but above a servant, a brother beloved, specially
to me, but how much more unto thee, both in the flesh and in the Lord?"
If the unbelieving partner does not return, let
the believer remain alone and count it a blessing from God who makes all
things work together for the good of the eternal souls of His dear
children. His wisdom is at work and His grace will be sufficient in all
ways.
1 Corinthians 7:7, 27, 32 "For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. 27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife. 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord." The Scripture warns that "Whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery."
Because of this warning, let every married man
examine his marriage and be sure that he is not married to another man's
wife and let every married woman examine her marriage and be sure that
she is not married to another woman's husband. You may need to make
detail investigation and seek counselling from scripturally sound
ministers to ascertain your case. Questions like these may be helpful.
Was your spouse married before?
Did the first marriage secure parental consent? Was it seen as marriage by the people in the society? Will you sincerely judge yourself married or on married, in the light of the Scripture? Much prayer, investigation and counselling will reveal the truth. Unlawful marriage union must be dissolved, for the purpose of eternal life. Those who are entering into the marriage union must investigate properly to ensure they are not entering into unlawful union.
Did the first marriage secure parental consent? Was it seen as marriage by the people in the society? Will you sincerely judge yourself married or on married, in the light of the Scripture? Much prayer, investigation and counselling will reveal the truth. Unlawful marriage union must be dissolved, for the purpose of eternal life. Those who are entering into the marriage union must investigate properly to ensure they are not entering into unlawful union.
F. How to be Holy and Maintain the Holy Life
God demands holiness from His people because
holiness is His nature. Every thing associated with Him is holy. His
name is holy; His word is holy; His angels are holy; His abode, heaven,
is holy; His saints are holy. When Satan and his angels came short of
His holiness standard He drove them away from heaven and condemned them
to everlasting fire.
Ezekiel 28:15, 18
15 "Thou wast perfect in thy ways from the day that thou wast created, till iniquity was found in thee.
18 Thou hast
defiled thy sanctuaries by the multitude of thine iniquities, by the
iniquity of thy traffick; therefore will I bring forth a fire from the
midst of thee, it shall devour thee, and I will bring thee to ashes upon
the earth in the sight of all them that behold thee."
Heaven is eternally holy. Jesus came to this world to save men from sin and make them holy so they can be with him in his eternal dwelling place. The instruments God uses to make men holy are the blood of Jesus, the word of God, the Holy Spirit, the name of Jesus, and of course His holy ministers, who teach and lead men to holiness. The holy life is one that does not commit sin, that loves God wholeheartedly, loves fellow men sincerely and keeps God's commandments totally.
Holiness begins at the salvation of the soul,
deepens at sanctification of the heart and is established by personal
discipline and diligence in keeping God's word. Hence the holy life
requires the unified actions of both God and the believer. The believer
submits himself to God to make him holy and diligently exercises himself
to obey and practice the word of God. To obey God regularly requires
faith in God and regular prayer for His grace.
Ezekiel 36:25-27"Then
will I sprinkle clean water upon you, and ye shall be clean: from all
your filthiness, and from all your idols, will I cleanse you.
26 A new heart
also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will
take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an
heart of flesh.
27 And I will put my spirit within you, and cause you to walk in My statutes, and ye shall keep My judgments, and do them."
Ephesians 5:25-27 "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave Himself for it; 26 That He might sanctify and cleanse it by the washing of water by the word,
27 That He might
present it to Himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or
any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish." Hebrews 9:14
"How much more shall the blood of Christ, who through the eternal
Spirit offered Himself without spot to God, purge your conscience from
dead works to serve the living God?"
1 Thessalonians 5:23
"And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your
whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of
our Lord Jesus Christ."
Psalm 51:5-7, 10 "Behold, I was shapen in iniquity; and in sin did my mother conceive me.
6 Behold, thou desireth truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom. 7 Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean: wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow. 10 Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me."
The above scriptures and several others show the promises of God to make you holy and the means He has provided to make you holy. God who makes you holy is able to preserve you in His holiness to the end of your life.
Jude 24, 25 "Now
unto Him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you
faultless before the presence of His glory with exceeding joy, 25 To the
only wise God our Saviour, be glory and majesty, and dominion and
power, both now and ever. Amen." Pray earnestly through faith in
Christ and receive a clean, pure and holy heart and life from God.
Persist in prayer until you have the witness, assurance and evidence.
- Seven Things To do To Keep Your Holy Life To The End
When God has cleansed, sanctified and filled you
with His holiness, it will be required of you to employ the help of God
and the means of grace to preserve yourself in His holiness. The
scriptures show us how to keep ourselves in the holiness of God every
day of our life. We must follow scriptural guidelines carefully so as
not to lose God's holiness and the eternal life it gives.
No. 1: Study and meditate regularly on God's word and obey it promptly.
Psalm 119:9-11,60 Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word. 10 With my whole heart have I sought thee: O let me not wonder from thy commandments.11 Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee. 60 I made haste, and delayed not to keep thy commandments."
No. 2: Associate with holy people and learn the sound doctrines of God's word that will establish you in scriptural holiness.
Psalm 119:63 "I am a companion of all them that fear thee, and of them that keep thy precepts."
No. 3:
Have a firm determination to keep yourself from all kinds of sins: in
marriage, in the family, in the church, in the Christian ministry, in
your business career, educational pursuit, workplace and everywhere.
Job 27:3-6 "All the while my breath is in me, and the spirit of God is in my nostrils;
4 My lips shall
not speak wickedness, nor my tongue utter deceit. 5 God forbid that I
should justify you: till I die I will not remove mine integrity from me.
6 My righteousness I hold fast, and will not let it go: my heart shall
not reproach me so long as I live."
Daniel 1:8
"But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with
the portion of the king's meat, nor with the wine which he drank:
therefore he requested of the prince of the eunuchs that he might not
defile himself."1 Thessalonians 2:10 "Ye are witnesses and God also, how holily and justly and unblameably we behaved ourselves among you that believe."
No. 4:
Employ all means of grace to resist sin, Satan and the influence of the
ungodly world in your life and bring your body under subjection so that
you may win the crown of life.
Romans 6:12-14 "Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof. 13 Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God. 14 For sin shall not have dominion over you: for ye are not under the law, but under grace."
1 Peter 5:8, 9
"Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring
lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour: 9 Whom resist steadfast
in the faith, knowing that the same afflictions are accomplished in
your brethren that are in the world."
1 Corinthians 9:27
"But I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection: lest that by
any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a cast
away."
No. 5:
Preach and teach holiness firmly and consistently. This will make your
family, church and companions holy and serve as a means of strengthening
and preserving you in the holy walk.
Psalm 40:8-11 "I delight to do thy will, O my God: yea, thy law is within my heart. 9 I have preached righteousness in the great congregation: lo, I have not refrained my lips, O Lord, thou knowest. 10 I have not hid thy righteousness within my heart; I have declared thy faithfulness and thy salvation: I have not concealed thy lovingkindness and thy truth from the great congregation." 11 Withhold not thou thy tender mercies from me, O Lord: Let thy lovingkindness and thy truth continually preserve me."
Genesis 18:18, 19
"Seeing that Abraham shall surely become a great and mighty nation, and
all the nations of the earth shall be blessed in him? 19 For I know
him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and
they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment; that
the LORD may bring upon Abraham that which He hath spoken of him."
Colossians 1:28, 29
"Whom we preach, warning every man, and teaching every man in all
wisdom; that we may present every man perfect in Christ Jesus: 29
Whereunto I also labour, striving according to His working, which
worketh in me mightily."
No. 6: Give
more attention to holy living than to success and achievement in life.
Make sure all your success and achievements are gotten in holiness, Be
determined to forgo any gain in this life that would take holiness away
from you and be prepared too to suffer any reproach or persecution that
comes against you as a result of your holy life.
Matthew 16:24-26
"Then said Jesus unto His disciples, If any man will come after Me, let
him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me. 25 For
whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his
life for My sake shall find it. 26 For what is a man profited, if he
shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man
give in exchange for his soul?"
Philippians 3:7-9 "But what things were gain to me, those I counted