Danger Of Premarital Sexual Relationship Before Marriage
Sexual Immoralities is not just something you do. Sex is someone you
are. When ever you have any premarital sexual relationship "You put your
life, glory and destiny on the line" You gave away something you may
never get back. Your virtue ,glory and destiny. It may interest you to
know that, every man destiny, glory and honor lays in his sperm cells.
Let see what the bible said about sexual sin in the lives of an individual.1 Corinthians 6:18 "Flee
sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but
he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5"For
this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from
sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body
in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who
do not know God"
Premarital Sexual Relationship
Sex should be given to someone whom you are 100% committed to, "As
measure by legal marriage". When sexual union takes place in these
proper context, In a spirit of giving, "The Creator Smile" It
shouldn't be taken from someone whom you are uncommitted. When ever
premarital sex occurred, an engagement union and blood covenant is
formed. Its not advice-able to engage in an premarital sexual
relationship with someone, whom you are not yet married or joined in
Holy matrimonial.
Sex in relationships before marriage succeeds in making the lady to love
the man more and making the man to love the body of the woman more.
When you engage in Premarital sex, you end up loosing out. It may appear
that the man is loving you more but the truth is that he is loving your
body, not you.
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Most importantly, refuse to take sexual advantage of anyone, because we tend to be more vulnerable when we are tired, isolate, lonely, discourage, depressed, angry or struggling in our relationship, especially with our mate. Don't think for a moment, demon's will not hesitate to bounce on you in those times. It require training and discipline. Resisting or overcoming temptation is a gutsy and courageous. Premarital s*x kills love and redirects focus. More still, it's a sin and ungodly.
Tell that man "NO MORE SEX" and watch if his attitude
towards you will change. He may even think that he is loving you more,
But in actual sense that love has been adulterated with sex. Any
relationship that is S*X-FOCUSED is dead already.
If you found yourself in above situation, Its not yet to late to
reconciled back to God through his son Jesus Christ. Ask Jesus Christ
for his tender mercy and forgiveness over this Immoral act. Focus and
soak your heart to the word of God. And God will send the right man
someday, whom will surely comes to respect your stand.